Cancer by bad luck!

Cancer- happens due to 'bad luck'...says a study conducted by Johns Hopkins Medicine research study. How lame is that? Are we talking about "luck" in this age? 

I am sure they must have reasons which support their findings, but are they telling us- that the maid working at my home doesn't say...33 year old Pramila's daughter has cancer, when asked she said-  "Kismat kharab hai madam"(it was bad luck, that my daughter has got cancer).

Ofcourse being ill  is bad luck- but whose bad luck? In my case, I, lost my father to cancer. So whose bad luck was it - Papa or me? He left and I am here! The theory of "bad luck" can be attributed to any disease, why limit it to cancer only? Being someone who believes in the power of science- I could not relate to it( Bad luck theory).

I am not convinced, by the 'bad luck theory', however I agree with them -to focus more on detecting cancer at early stage when it is curable. 

For people who are interested in reading the article can read here. It is a great article, i suggest everyone should read it. The classification is done nicely and most of the reasons and risk explained are true.

Happy New Year, Papa!

Chapter 4 - Mumbai

After chemotherapy started, i felt relaxed and wanted to concentrate on others forms of treatment. Like Naturopathy, Immunotherapy, Tibetan medicines and whatever i could find in my research.

I had no idea, but wanted to try -so decided to research, and research as i much  can till i find the “elixir” that will brand my father as the “SURVIVOR". I would surf different websites whenever i was not with doctor’s. I bought books. I joined forums,  started talking to doctors and people who were patients or were related to the patients in someway. But before this i wanted to take my father to a famous hospital in Mumbai.

There is famous saying, the grass is always greener on the other side. Papa was receiving treatment in the  best hospital of Delhi and second best in India. But i wanted the best for my father, no matter what it takes. And when i have the option, why not take it. My younger is settled in Mumbai.

I was determined.But before that i had to take permission from the doctors, as papa was already undergoing treatment. The doctors were reluctant, but eventually agreed with some conditions and gave me a list of precautions to be followed. I had to return in a week, for the next phase of chemotherapy. 

It was decided, we were going to Mumbai. I was excited and had this feeling that taking papa to Mumbai will prove to be a turning point in papa’s treatment.

Things were not favorable, traveling by plane was absolute “NO”, and procuring train tickets on a short notice was very difficult. But as they say "When there is will, there is away”. I got the tickets. We were to travel on 5'Feb2012. All required documents, prescription, medicines were packed. And here we come Mumbai.

The train got cancelled for some technical reasons, and our plan got delayed by 3 days. Amidst all this hustle bustle, we travelled to Mumbai. Though i was little concerned about my daughter traveling by train for the first time, but it turned out fine. She had fun and next morning we arrived in Mumbai at 9-915am.

We took taxi, reached my brother’s home  around 11am. Since my brother and his wife, both work. The neighbor came to deliver the keys. Papa was tired because of the long journey. We insisted on taking rest.  But papa, was too excited to see the new apartment my brother recently purchased. He gulped the medicines and started to find flaws in the new house. He did find many only to tell my brother in the evening ( papa had this critical streak).  I miss the times  when papa, mom my brother’s and me would argue and then laugh out loud…very loud. Only if I could stop time and live in the moment….

Miss you Papa!